Kiana Asherah @kianaasherah
Why on the healing path is it “required” to get divorced and to cut out family and long time friends?
Well first off nothing is required on the healing path. Everyone’s journey is completely unique. But for myself as I went further down the healing path and started to change the patterns and beliefs I have been living for lifetimes it became critical to cut out those who were not fully supporting me.
And as a wounded person, not doing the healing work yourself, no matter how hard you try - it is really hard to fully support someone else on a true healing path. The frequency gap gets larger and larger and they project onto you.
Not to mention, everyone I chose to no longer contribute my energy toward had an addiction of some sort… an addiction I once had and have worked on or am working on healing. When you are trying to heal your own addiction it is best to avoid those situations where you may get tempted back into it.
Take drinking alcohol as an example. If you are a recovering alcoholic you generally stay away from bars and parties and people drinking alcohol (at least for a period of time, if not forever).
Well this is the same on the healing path… I was healing myself of food addiction, drama addiction, gossiping, low self worth, comparing myself to others, addiction to being the victim, yelling at my children, not loving myself, manipulating others, striving for attention and recognition, people pleasing.
So every person I “cut out” of my life or withdrew from did one or more of these things that I was trying to heal within myself. So I now choose to surround myself with people who are also consciously working on these things within themselves.
It is not that I think I am better than anyone else. But for me to be the best version of myself and mother I can be, which is very important to me, removing myself from the low frequency energy and toxicity was a must.
Staying connected to these people brought toxic food into my life that I had worked hard on removing… brought toxic energy, toxic talk, toxic thoughts and drama. I easily got sucked in with my weak boundaries. I want to say this was due to lack of love for myself but I am also realizing it is so much more than that.
It is the conditioning. These things were normal, something that had always been there, something that was just a part of life. WRONG…. None of this is normal or healthy, no matter how much one justifies it. Now that I have stepped away and am fully removed from it, it is starting to become much more clear of how toxic these seemingly normal things actually are. And the destruction they cause in happiness, in abundance, and in life.
My teacher, Liana Shanti does not tell her students to cut people out of their life. Absolutely not. She teaches students to love themselves enough to have strong boundaries and to protect themselves from the people holding them back from fully embodying their healing path and their connection to Jesus.
Thank you Jesus. Thank you Liana for following your gifts to give me the teachings to be able to find my way back to Jesus and to find inner peace.